How long should you wait or how many dates should you go on, before you sleep with someone?
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on Feb 9 2009by Cheeky 
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This depends on the person and the situation. If you want a relationship, no bang bang on date one!
Who cares. If you want to get laid, then bang bang away! If they are bad in bed you won’t want to date them anyway. Get it out of the way!
I always mess this one up. I want to think it doesn’t matter (it shouldn’t! you’re both allowed to get what you want) but my record says otherwise. The last serious relationship I was in, I waited 3 weeks to sleep with him and we were together a year. Can’t say the same for guys I’ve gotten with soon after meeting!!
It depends what you’re looking for. If you want something long lasting, you first need to build the meaningful bond behind the pooty-tang or it will be what it is…sex. So keep it in your pantelones! But if all you want is a joyride, no waiting necessary (but I would think that should be pretty obvious).
This depends on who is answering the question. If it’s a guy answering then the answer is definitely on the first date. Good thing women have more sense.
I think it depends how much key information has been acquired- I learned the hard way that you shouldn’t put out until you know for sure that the guy ISN’T MARRIED!
yep, it’s good to inquire as to marital status before moving forward
and yeah us women have all the control. comes with responsibility but I would rather have it the way it is!
First time every time regardless….
I’m with hotmomma on this one…
The longer you prolong meeting the shlong, the more awkward it will be when you breakup with him because of it, eh?
this website isn’t going to turn into a gender-bashing station, I hope. (fuzzylogic0208 I’m calling you out)
One small observation I’ve made in my own experiences hints that people more often than not can’t have a relationship with someone they don’t respect. If you don’t typically get sloppy on the first date, but you do with new guy or gal, perhaps its just too much to worry about if you know it only (theoretically) takes one meeting with a person for your new lover to get down with someone else. I imagine the trust factor would be a lot tougher to work for if, in your experience, the dude or lady was easy.
On the flip side, man whores and sluts were made for each other. I’m sure there are plenty of relationships built on the ability to trust that sex won’t cause drama between the two of them.